Trying to Pick a Venue

Posted March 20, 2015 by love2dazzle in Features, Random Thoughts / 0 Comments

Wedding Stress. I’ve decided that I want to share my journey of wedding planning with others. Now I know many people have either already been married and they know the pressure and stress that I am going through and the other half of you are still in high school not even thinking about getting married. Well pressure number one is trying to find a venue. Trying to find a venue on a very strict budget is hard.

Then when no one seems to agree where to hold the wedding that causes another issue. I am completely done for something simple and sweet. I don’t want fantasy ballroom. I would prefer to have my wedding out in the sunshine but if that is not possible I can definitely make compromises. Why do wedding venues cost so much? People do realize that the average person is getting married right? Not everyone has a huge trust fund or something to pay for a wedding. Honestly I don’t want to start out my new married life in a ton of debt from a wedding.

The number one question is how big does this wedding need to be. I didn’t realize how many people want to be at my wedding. It is like goodness gracious! Then on top of that when I find a place I like and I think everything is set, and then I am informed that my fiance doesn’t want to do it that way. So it makes things very interesting. Now I am back to square one. Being back to square one may be that I get to do something smaller and more intimate. I really am curious to see how things may turn out. As long as I have a wedding that I can enjoy, I am not going to worry about it too much.

About love2dazzle

Ali Kiki is a reader, writer, reviewer, blogger, and photographer in Portland, OR. An avid reader since childhood, you can usually find her devouring a book or stalking the bookstagram hashtag in her lovely apartment surrounded by books. Ali has been blogging since 2006 and she created Dazzled by Books in 2012. Her most recent adventure is making bookish candles for Stub Tail Candle Co., which are sold on Etsy.

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